Hearing and listening are distinct processes. Hearing is the physical act of perceiving sound through the ears, while listening requires active attention and understanding that goes beyond mere words. True listening engages the "internal ears" of the heart, enabling deeper comprehension.
Listening is crucial in all relationships, whether with family, friends, colleagues, or in a spiritual connection with God. While some people may naturally excel at listening, others may need to develop this skill. Without effective listening, relationships risk becoming superficial, noisy, and unfulfilling. Genuine listening involves stepping into the other person's world and temporarily setting aside our own concerns (Rossi, 2009). It requires letting go of self-centeredness and focusing on the needs and experiences of the speaker.
Listening is about understanding rather than merely responding. We need to listen with the intention to understand, not just to reply. If we focus on formulating a response while someone is speaking, we are not truly listening; instead, we are preoccupied with our own thoughts. A response, if needed, should come only after we have fully listened and understood the other person. Effective listening fosters empathy, connection, and appropriate actions.
Listening is more essential than we might realize. Without practicing good listening, we cannot fully understand others' feelings or communication. Genuine, deep, and fulfilling relationships are impossible without it. Let us make a conscious effort to listen with the intent to understand.
Notes
Rossi, D. (2009). Listening to God’s Whispers (p. 132).
Very true. An art that our society desperately needs today
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Yes, nowadays I strive to remember to listen attentively because in my experience, I have seen many listen not to understand me in what I have said though of course not everything I said is perfect. Yes, I ask for understanding. So I learn it’s better not to speak too much, too quick. Be quick to listen but slow to speak. James 1.19
ReplyDeleteGood Article. Well said about the need of active and intended listening.
ReplyDeleteWe all do need to listen but I think we need to be selective because some people can talk for hours without letting anyone else say a word.
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