The First Temptation: The Illusion of Relevance

In the wilderness, a fasting Jesus hears the tempter’s voice: “Command these stones to become loaves of bread” (Matthew 4:3). On the surface, it is about hunger. Beneath it, something deeper stirs—the invitation to prove worth through usefulness.

Turn stones into bread.
Turn scarcity into supply.
Turn yourself into the one who fixes and provides.

Henri Nouwen calls this the temptation of relevance—the drive to define ourselves by what we do rather than who we are. It is a subtle psychospiritual trap. We begin to believe our value rests in productivity, competence, and being needed.

We know this rhythm well. We say yes to one more request, solve one more crisis, respond to one more message. For a moment, there is a quiet rush in being indispensable. But it fades, often leaving exhaustion behind. Beneath the busyness lingers a harder question: If I am not useful, am I still worthy?

Gabor Maté reminds us that when self-worth is tied to external validation, it becomes fragile. It rises with success and collapses with failure. This contingent self-esteem fuels anxiety, stress, and an emptiness no achievement can satisfy.

Spiritually, the cost is profound. When usefulness becomes identity, we begin to live as though God’s love must be earned. We chase relevance to quiet shame—shame often rooted in childhood wounds or cultural expectations. Yet striving rarely heals shame; it deepens it.

Jesus answers simply: “One does not live by bread alone” (v.4). Life is not sustained by performance but by relationship—by every word that comes from God.

Lent invites resistance. What if we fasted from fixing? What if we allowed moments of holy “uselessness”? In stillness, we rediscover what productivity cannot give: belovedness.

You do not need to turn stones into bread to be loved. Let God feed you first. From divine union—not human striving—true relevance gently flows.

 

Notes

Maté, G. (2018). The Return to Ourselves: Trauma, Healing, and the Myth of Normal. Boulder, CO: Sounds True. (6 compact discs).

Nouwen, H. (1989). In the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian Leadership. Crossroad Publishing.

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The First Temptation: The Illusion of Relevance.

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Encountering Demons and Angels Within

When Mark tells us that “the Spirit drove Jesus out into the wilderness… and he was with the wild beasts” (Mk 1:12–13), he is not just describing scenery. He is showing us where real transformation happens: at the edge of our inner desert, where we encounter our “beasts”—and discover that God is there too.

In the Gospel of Mark, the wilderness and meeting the beasts are not accidental. The Spirit leads Jesus there. The desert is not punishment; it is initiation. It is the place where illusions fall away and truth surfaces.

Drawing on the wisdom of the Desert Fathers, Anselm Grün reminds us that the “demons” we face are not only external forces but also the raw energies of our own fear, anger, craving, and shame. Faced honestly, these forces do not have to destroy us; they can become places of encounter and slow inner transformation. The desert is where we stop running from ourselves and allow God’s light to fall on what we usually hide.

Lent invites us into that same inner wilderness. When we fast, simplify, or spend quiet time in prayer, our inner beasts often wake up: old resentments, loneliness, compulsions, the urge to control. Instead of seeing this as a failure, we can see it as the beginning of deeper work. Like the monks, we “fight the demons” not by hating ourselves or forcing change, but by staying present, naming what is there, and letting Christ stand with us in it.

Mark adds that “angels ministered to him.” The wild beasts and the angels surround Jesus at the same time. Our own deserts are like that: a mix of danger and hidden help. To encounter demons and angels within this Lent is not to go alone into darkness, but to join Jesus in a place where even your most untamed parts can be met — not with contempt, but with a fierce, liberating mercy.

Transformation begins where avoidance ends.

Notes

Grün, A. (2000). Heaven begins within you: Wisdom from the Desert Fathers. Crossroad Publishing Company.

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Intellectual Suicide or Living Faith?

Groups, institutions, and religions invariably develop certain rules and codes to which members are expected to adhere. In religion, these shared understandings are often called dogmas. Their purpose is not to confine reality but to point beyond themselves—to a truth greater than the words that describe it. They draw from the tradition and wisdom of those who have gone before us and serve as guides along the way.

Dogmas point to truth and reality; they are not the reality itself. Yet we can remain limited to mere intellectual adherence to these dogmas without ever seeking to experience the deeper reality to which they point. When this happens, we close our hearts and minds to something far more transformative. Blind adherence to dogma, without lived encounter, becomes a kind of intellectual suicide rather than living faith.

As Alan Watts observes that irrevocable commitment to dogma is intellectual suicide, because it closes the mind to any new vision of the world. Intellectual suicide occurs when we resist deeper or renewed understanding. Our knowledge is never complete; every insight remains partial. To cling rigidly to fixed formulations as final and exhaustive is to deny the dynamic nature of truth and human growth.

Watts further reminds us that “Faith is, above all, openness—an act of trust in the unknown.” True faith does not imprison us within dogma; it allows dogma to become a doorway. It invites us beyond formulas into encounter. Genuine faith gives us the humility to acknowledge the Great Mystery that transcends human comprehension and nurtures trust rather than control.

When we allow our understanding to deepen and renew, we begin to see life and the Sacred with greater clarity and wonder. The choice before us is clear: intellectual suicide or living faith. One closes the mind in fear of uncertainty; the other opens the heart in courageous trust.

Certainty can comfort us—but openness transforms us.

Notes

Watts, A. (1989). The book: On the taboo against knowing who you are. Vintage Books.

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What Truly Guides Us: Event or Meaning?

People go through many experiences — some joyful, some painful. It is easy to assume that frightening or humiliating events permanently shape a person for the worse. But is it the event itself that defines us — or the meaning we give to it?

Psychologist Alfred Adler, a colleague of Freud, challenged the idea that negative experiences automatically produce negative lives. Kishimi and Koga recount Adler’s insight: “No experience is in itself a cause of our success or failure… We are not determined by our experiences, but the meaning we give them is self-determining.” For Adler, it is how we interpret events — not the events themselves — that shapes our lives.

Psychiatrist Viktor Frankl, reflecting on resilience amid extreme suffering, expressed a similar insight: “Those who have a ‘why’ to live can bear almost any ‘how.’” Meaning gives endurance. Purpose gives strength. When a person locates meaning, even severe hardship can become bearable and transformative.

This principle also resonates with Scripture: “So we do not lose heart… For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal” (2 Corinthians 4:16–18). The focus shifts from outward events to inner perspective. Strength grows from how life is interpreted, not simply from what happens.

Kishimi and Koga, in The Courage to Be Disliked, clarify that this does not deny the real influence of trauma, loss, or early wounds. Painful experiences do shape us, but what ultimately guides life is the meaning we assign to them. Life is not merely something that happens to us; it is something we shape through our choices, reflections, and interpretations.

Events matter — but meaning matters more. Two people can face the same hardship and emerge very differently, depending on how they understand it. When meaning is guided by purpose, reflection, and faith, suffering itself can become a doorway to growth. We may not choose every experience, but we can choose how we read it — and that choice quietly, powerfully shapes who we become.

We are defined less by events than by the story we tell about them.

Notes

Kishimi, I., & Koga, F. (2017). The courage to be disliked: How to free yourself, change your life, and achieve real happiness. Atria Books.

Frankl, V. E. (2006). Man’s search for meaning. Beacon Press. (Original work published 1946)

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What Truly Guides Us: Event or Meaning?

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We Are Not Separate: Rediscovering Our Place in God’s Creation

 

How we relate to others and the world depends largely on how we understand ourselves in relation to it. Some see the world as merely material, empty of God’s presence, or even as something to control, dominate, or fear. Others, including mystical thinkers, perceive the world and its inhabitants as inherently sacred, infused with God’s continuous presence. From this perspective, we are not separate observers but inseparable participants in creation, emerging from God, our single source.

Alan Watts, who introduced Eastern wisdom to the West, beautifully captured this idea: “We do not come into the world; we come out of it, as leaves from a tree. As the ocean ‘waves,’ the universe ‘peoples.’” Understanding ourselves as emerging from the world, rather than arriving in it, can deepen our connection with creation and inspire reverence for all life.

The Bible affirms this organic relationship. Genesis 2:7 tells us, “Then the Lord God formed the man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life,” showing that humans are not foreign arrivals but arise naturally from creation. The psalmist echoes this, saying, “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb… I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” Scripture portrays humans as emerging from God’s creation, inseparable from it, just as Watts describes.

Franciscan spirituality complements this vision. In his Canticle of Creatures, St. Francis calls the sun, moon, fire, and wind his brothers and sisters, celebrating the sacredness of all creation. Watts’ imagery of leaves from a tree aligns beautifully with this: our lives flow organically from creation, intimately connected with all living beings.

Many environmental and relational struggles stem from seeing ourselves as separate from the world. When we forget that God resides in creation, or that how we treat nature affects us, we lose harmony. Embracing a vision of ourselves as emerging from God’s creation can bring peace to our hearts, strengthen relationships, and cultivate awe, joy, and reverence for the world.

Recognizing that we are not separate invites us to live in connection—with God, with creation, and with one another—truly honoring the sacredness of life.

When we honor creation, we honor the God who dwells within it.

 

Notes

Watts, A. (1989). The book: On the taboo against knowing who you are. Vintage Books.

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Darkness Is Not Dark

Darkness and light are often understood as opposites, canceling each other out. We imagine light-filled stars and galaxies on one hand, and dark, empty spaces on the other. But is darkness truly empty?

Modern physics suggests otherwise. Scientists tell us that absolute darkness does not exist. Even what we call “empty space” is not truly empty. Physicist Brian Greene explains that space is filled with fluctuating energy fields; some form of energy is always present, even in the deepest vacuum of the universe. In other words, light or energy persists even where we cannot see it.

Our experience of darkness has more to do with the limits of human perception than with the absence of light. Under ideal conditions, the human eye needs about five to seven photons to detect light. When fewer photons reach our eyes, light may still be present physically, but we cannot perceive it. We name that experience darkness. Seen this way, darkness is not the absence of light; it is the boundary of our vision.

So darkness is not truly dark. It quietly holds light within it.

This scientific insight opens a powerful spiritual reflection. In human life, darkness often becomes a metaphor for suffering, uncertainty, grief, and despair. Yet if there is no absolute darkness in the universe, perhaps there is no situation entirely devoid of hope. Light may be present even when we cannot yet see it.

The psalmist expresses this truth with striking clarity:
“Even the darkness is not dark to you; the night is bright as the day” (Psalm 139:12).

What appears dark to us is never dark to God. God sees light where we see only pain, possibility where we see only loss. When we rely solely on our limited understanding, darkness can overwhelm us. But when we trust that light is present—even beyond our perception—we begin to live with courage and hope.

Because darkness is not truly dark, we need not fear it. If we look patiently and attentively, especially with the eyes of faith, we may discover that light has been present all along.

What part of your life feels dark right now?
Can you hold it gently, trusting that light is already there, waiting to be seen?

Notes

Greene, B. (2011). The Hidden Reality. Knopf.

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God of Many Faces

Most of us grow up within a single, largely homogeneous culture. This shared context gives us language, rituals, beliefs, and a sense of belonging. Such rootedness is often essential for stability and growth. Yet, when we remain confined within familiar boundaries, we may unintentionally close ourselves off from the richness that other cultures, traditions, and experiences offer.

Over time, this limitation can quietly turn into distance, suspicion, or even fear of those who are different from us. What begins as comfort can become separation. When differences are misunderstood, they may be perceived as threats rather than gifts. 

A deeper spiritual reflection invites us to see otherwise. God is not a God of one face, one culture, or one expression. God is a God of many faces, present in all people and revealed through diverse histories, temperaments, and ways of being. Franciscan friar Richard Rohr captures this truth beautifully: 

“The fact that God has given us so many different faces and temperaments and emotions and histories shows us how God honors each unique journey and culture. God is not threatened by differences. It’s we who are.”

From the very beginning, Scripture affirms this diversity as sacred. “God created humankind in God’s image” (Genesis 1:27)—not a single image, but a shared reflection spread across humanity. Each person reveals something unique about God’s nature: compassion, strength, tenderness, resilience, wisdom, creativity.

Throughout history, God has been at work in people of different cultures, times, and backgrounds—women and men who, in their own contexts, reflected divine love. To say that God has many faces is not to divide God, but to recognize the fullness of God revealed through human diversity. Perhaps this is why Jesus prayed so earnestly for unity: “That they may all be one” (John 17:21). Unity, here, is not sameness. It is a communion that honors difference while holding all together in love.

In a world where fear and self-interest often exploit differences to divide, God gently invites us to look again—to recognize God’s face in every person. When we do so, we move from suspicion to solidarity, from fear to reverence.

For God is, indeed, a God of many faces—and every face is intrinsically holy.

 Notes

Rohr, R. (2003). Everything belongs: The gift of contemplative prayer. A Crossroad Book. 

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