Life is a mix of both positive and negative experiences. Unpleasant events, such as illness, accidents, job loss, separation, and death, can cause us to lose hope, patience, connection, and joy. In moments when we feel drained, angry, or overwhelmed by these challenges, we might find ourselves questioning what will help us through (Kushner, 1981). In such times, many of us turn to prayer for guidance.
We often pray to God to heal our loved ones or ourselves, or we ask for solutions to the problems we face. Yet, despite our prayers and those of our family and friends, it may seem like our requests go unanswered—the circumstances remain unchanged, or the sick continue to suffer or even pass away. When our prayers seem unanswered, we might wonder, “If God can’t make my sickness go away, what good is He?” (Kushner, 1981). It’s crucial to understand that while God may not resolve our problems with miracles, He can give us the strength to persevere even when we are sick, scared, or feeling hopeless. In moments when we are depleted of hope and energy, we can find renewed strength in God.
Prayer does not always provide a miraculous cure for illness, repair a broken relationship, or avert a tragedy. As Kushner suggests, prayer can achieve three significant things: First, it can help us discover the hidden hope and strength within ourselves. Second, it can connect us with others, allowing us to feel the support and companionship of those around us. Third, prayer reassures us that God is with us, sharing in our pain and struggles.
From this perspective, prayer is never futile. Even prayers that seem unanswered hold value, offering us precious gifts. They help us uncover courage, hope, and deeper connections with others, while drawing us closer to God's companionship.
Notes
Kushner H. S. (1981). When bad things happen to good people (p. 142-143). Anchor Books.
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ReplyDeletePrayer to me,is a gift in itself. Believing it's been answered by my faith in the Almighty Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you great views.
ReplyDeleteExcellent article father. Congratulations to you. Yes. For me it's true that my prayers will never go unanswered. It will take it's own time. Praying for you father.
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